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Am I the only one struggling through med school?
Am I just dumb, like am I stupid?

Oarabile Mamashela
Mar 30, 20246 min read
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Ade and Ayo X: The End
This was never a love story....

Oarabile Mamashela
Aug 8, 202316 min read
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Love, Ayo
I should have known when you gave me butterflies

Oarabile Mamashela
Aug 5, 20235 min read
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Ade and Ayo IX: The Ones Who Bear It
This is not a love story.

Oarabile Mamashela
Aug 4, 20239 min read
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Ade and Ayo VIII: The One Who Saw It
Maybe that's why I'm so obsessed with him, I want me back.

Oarabile Mamashela
Jul 28, 202311 min read
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Ade and Ayo VII: The Puppet Master
He would always say "it's best to enjoy what I bring while I'm still here". Ade liked telling people that he wasn't a constant, he comes….

Oarabile Mamashela
Jul 16, 20237 min read
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Defining Adulthood
I want to taste life, like fully experience it.

Oarabile Mamashela
Apr 25, 20234 min read
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Cry, The Beloved Country: The mental health decline of Generation Z
We are the depressed and anxious generation.

Oarabile Mamashela
Mar 31, 20235 min read
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The Bubble We Live In
Medical School is a bit of an odd experience...

Oarabile Mamashela
Feb 10, 20233 min read
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Growing Pains
She was my everything, and I thought that she was the sun, the moon and the stars

Oarabile Mamashela
Dec 16, 20226 min read
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The Wait
He had never really known love before

Oarabile Mamashela
Dec 7, 20221 min read
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Relationships Through my Enby Lens
In my journey of radical self acceptance, I have found that I no longer want to suppress parts of myself..

Oarabile Mamashela
Dec 2, 20223 min read
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Dating as a Gen Z'er Pt 2
I had my first kiss at fourteen...

Oarabile Mamashela
Nov 19, 20223 min read
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Dating as a Gen Z'er
We killed romance when we decided to drop our standards, and start settling for the bare minimum

Oarabile Mamashela
Nov 9, 20224 min read
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Ade and Ayo VI: The Devoted Wife
TRIGGER WARNING: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE Naomi I raised my daughter to be like her father. He was the person I loved and looked up to the most....

Oarabile Mamashela
Oct 21, 20226 min read
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Ade and Ayo V: The Restraining Order
The thing with the sun is that if you feel it for too long you get burnt.

Oarabile Mamashela
Oct 14, 20225 min read
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The Prodigal Son
No matter what happens, I will always come back to the blog, which is home to me.

Oarabile Mamashela
Oct 9, 20223 min read
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Dear Ade
I love you Ade, even when loving you feels like a breath held in anticipation

Oarabile Mamashela
Aug 20, 20222 min read
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Ade and Ayo IV: The Girl Next Door
She classified how much she loved someone based on how much shit she was willing to take from them..

Oarabile Mamashela
Aug 5, 20225 min read
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The Last of the Teens
I have never been a person of half-measures; I like to throw myself into things completely. I've always felt that this was the only way...

Oarabile Mamashela
Aug 3, 20224 min read
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